Police Report: NP Man Accused Of Domestic Abuse

Posted 1 year ago

By North Platte Police Department

Jeremy Ray Tobey

On 1/3/13 at 10:20 AM officers responded to the 900 block of west 6th in regards to a domestic disturbance.  Upon arrival officers met with the female adult victim and adult witness.

The victim had injuries and the investigation determined that Jeremy Tobey was suspected of causing the injury to the victim who was his live-in girlfriend.  Jeremy was incarcerated for felony 3rd degree domestic assault as he had a prior conviction of the same offense.  While speaking with the victim it was also determined that a prior incident of domestic violence had occurred on 1/1/13.

It was reported that Jeremy had grabbed the victim around the throat until she reportedly blacked out.  It was reported that Jeremy had than pulled a knife out and threatened to cause injury to the victim. Jeremy was also charged with another count of felony 3rd degree domestic assault as well as terroristic threats and strangulation.


  • youwillneverlearn

    He needs to grow up! He beat his ex wife! She was strong enough to leave. Now he beats his girlfriend! She needs to leave his butt! He also has another girl on the side! Ladies no one needs to be beat or talking down to! Stand up for yourself! Woman are strong!

    Current score: 19
  • lol

    jeremy honestly i thought u were a good guy til i witnessrd how pathetic u are. i should of beat the brakes off u when i was staying with ur now ex. ur f`n pathetic.. shes a good woman and a great mother and all u did was degrade her and make her feel like shes nothing. well u sorry excuse for a man she is someone and i love her shes like a sister to me i hope u rot. im glad ur out of her and her kids lives cuz u dont deserve a good woman u deserve to be screwed in the a** and turned into someones B

    Current score: 22
  • Smokey

    I haven’t seen Toby since elementary school. He was a fatass bully with no friends. Looks like things haven’t changed.

    Current score: 13
    • Smokey 2

      Jeremy wasn’t so bad growing up in school (at least he wasn’t to my personal knowledge), but sure has changed over the years.

      Current score: 1
  • youwillneverlearn

    The thing about him, he wants people to think he is a good guy! But we all know now he is worthless!

    Current score: 9
  • karma

    There is so much that I want to say to all of this but I am restraining my mouth and going to try and keep it simple. Jeremy Tobey has 4 children 3 from his ex-wife and 1 from the mistress he had while he was married. He currently has no legal rights to any of these children. Yes, he used to beat his ex-wife on I’m pretty sure a daily basis thank god she was strong enough to leave him. His mistress has a restraining order on him for abusing her as well. He lost his three daughters due to his drug addiction and doing it with those girls present. Maybe now he will sobber up and realize how much pain he has caused all these women and children. Sick sick human being.

    Current score: 5
    • Deb Boub

      He never beat is -ex. She made it all up becasue she had 2 abusive boyfriends at the time. Why do you have to be a hater?

      Current score: 1
      • karma

        Haha!! Maybe you should check your facts. Do some research and see what you come up with before you start running your mouth.

        Current score: 2
      • lol

        lmao how stupid are u???? he treated the girl he just beat up like complete trash ! i stayed with them for 2 1/2 weeka u dumba$$!! so this aint hating its the truth ! hes worthless he treated her like an ant.. made her think everything she did was wrong. ive known the girl for YEARS shes a great mother an amazing woman but he dogwalked her for absolutely nothing. i believe he was on drugs. his mood would change in the snap of ur finger! one minute hes cheerful and nice as soon as hes alone with her hes rantin n raving. the douchebag is where he belongs and im glad hes in jail !

        Current score: 5
  • Backnhimup

    There Are two sides to every story and nobody knows him or what he’s been through That chick is cracked out of her head smokes more crack than she feeds her kids food…Jeremy is a good guy and These charges are he said she said and the witness stuff is stupid because they weren’t even there when it happened

    Current score: 3
    • lol

      cracked out??? r u f`n serious ???? kaylas only bad habit is smoking cigarettes u dumbfk!

      Current score: 1
      • wow!

        Kayla is definitely a crackhead!! She must have you fooled “lol”!!!!! No one deserves to be beat,but that girl kept putting herself in the situation and probably just for the drugs!!! Funny how she is so good at playing the victim must have alot of practice at it..she even had me fooled when I met her!!! Hope the truth comes out and both parties held responsible for their actions!

        Current score: 4
        • lol

          ur a f’n idiot. fooled me? ive known her dor years u dumba$$. get ur facts right. cuz mind u.. i was living there

          Current score: 0
  • Goodgrief

    His ex is an amazing person and mother!! Please keep in mind that he has children who do not need to hear all of this!! They are wonderful as well!!! Maxwell has a problem with turning out a bully! To bad! Hope this girlfriend is done with him now.

    Current score: 3
  • Unknown

    Ya kno I never have agreed with men hitting women but I kno both of them and honestly she is just as worthless as him. She sleeps with peoples spouses and tries to break up happy homes, and doing all this while with jeremy. She is noy a good mother and put her kids in these situations not only now 2 times but with her ex husband to. Now correct me if im wrong but on the 1st when he assualted her in front of her kids why didnt she call cops then? Not only did she wait til it happened again but let it happen in front if her kids a second time .there both worthless and she knew how he was and continued to stay, selfish woman if u ask me especially when u have kids!

    Current score: 7
    • lol

      thats funny u wanna call her worthless. whos spouse does she sleep with?? cuz ive been in the household if she wasnt with jeremy working she was at home with her kids and myself. and a bad mother r u serious? so its her fault that jeremy is a douche bag and beat her up?? u do not know what this woman has been thru.. he was blackmailing her.. threwtening her.. telling her if she kicks him out hes gonna put drugs in the house n call the cops to get her kids takin from her. mind u I KNOW.. IVE SEEN &&HEARD. SO STFU!

      Current score: 1
      • wow!

        She slept with my boyfriend! And took money from him…this was all while she was still with Jeremy!! You said you lived with them for two and a half weeks that doesn’t mean you know everything!!! I don’t know Jeremy but glad to see not everyone is just taking get side cause she is good at playing the victim!!! And fyi if she wasn’t on drugs him making threats about them to get her kids taken away wouldn’t work!!,,drug test would show the truth,,she is a CRACKHEAD!!!

        Current score: 2
        • lol

          shes offered to tske a drug test u retard. and no it doesnt mean i know everything but i know for those few weeks and prior. a crackhead doesnt sleep.. a craxkhead is figity.. a crackhead feens u dumba$$. i dnt c her feenin.. i saw her wake up every mornjng get her kids ready for school make them breakfast and wen they got home she did for them as well. a craxkhead only cares about when they gon get they next hit u dumbfk.

          Current score: 0
          • wow!

            just seeing you respond to my message at 3 in the morning shows you’re probably locked in her bedroom with her hitting that glass pipe. You can say whatever you want,,There is more than enough of us that see through that fake act she puts on!!

            Current score: 0
  • really?

    Jeremy is an always has been a women beater. He would beat his ex-wife on a daily basis. He had multiple women on the side the whole time he was married and even has a child from one of his mistresses. He has 4 kids and no rights to any of them due to his addictions. I am glad everyone is seeing him for who he truly is!!!! It is about time. I feel so sorry for all he has hurt. Those poor children!

    Current score: 5
    • Deb Boub

      You’re lying about that. Why do yo uhave to be such a hater????

      Current score: 8
  • whatcomesaround

    The man has 4 kids he will never be a part of. But the thing of it is, they will all be better off. He is a worthless excuse of a human. These women regardless of who they are don’t deserve to be treated this way. Let this be a lesson to women to stick up for themselves. His ex had to deal with the brunt of this for years. Im so proud she finally had the courage to get out and kick him to the curb. F you Jeremy. You strung out crack head. I hope you get what is coming to you.

    Current score: 6
  • whyisitalwaystheguysfault

    ok here is the question…why in the heck can a girl and her “witness” always get the guy in trouble??? Most of the stuff in this story sounds like hear say…did the witness live with them and know what they did 24/7? I have known Jeremy many times and the only time that I have only known him to hurt anyone was when they kept pushing him and pushing him…we are here for you Jeremy!!! Chin up!!!! TEAM TOBEY all the way!!!!

    Current score: 4
    • Joe Nasty

      and he should be MAN enough to walk away.

      Current score: 6
  • Deb Boub

    Quit bashing Jeremy!! The charges are bogus. I know him and he always treated me with respect!!!!

    Current score: 13
  • Joe Nasty

    They don’t arrest you without evidence. He’s busted and now every decent woman in NP knows about him!

    What are YOU hiding Deb?

    Current score: 6
    • Deb Boub

      Sure Joe, false accusations of rape and beating NEVER happen, do they?

      http://www.theforensicexaminer.com/archive/spring09/15/

      Are YOU still beating your woman, Joe?

      Current score: 14
      • youwillneverlearn

        Are you kidding me Deb? Are you off you rocker! He is a loser! Not a man not even a father. How about he is only a sperm donor. Get a life! He is a worthless human being!

        Current score: 6
        • lolspermdonor

          I couldnt agree more!!!!! That’s all he is and was a sperm donor. How is it that all these people stand up for him so much when in reality you all know its deeper than beating women when it comes to this man. Everyone can sit here and talk all this smack and laugh and get mad. Honestly its sick and sad his children will never have a father for the choices he has made in his life. Which isn’t so funny now is it?

          Current score: 6
        • Deb Boub

          No, I NEVER kid about something like rape. Why don’t YOU get a life!?

          Current score: 4
      • Joe Nasty

        @ Deb

        I’m not saying it never happens. It happens all the time. I’m saying it’s not protocol for someone to be arrested without evidence. The fact that he’s been arrested tells me he did SOMETHING.

        Now go get in the kitchen and make your man a sandwich before he spanks you and makes you stand in the corner for talking out of pocket on the internet again. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

        I hope you see the sarcasm in that. I really do, it’ll show you’re human.

        Current score: 6
        • Deb Boub

          Hey Joe, there have too many cases that have gone to trial (so they THOUGHT they had evidence), only to find out that the accuser was lying.

          BTW, you should save your breath for your inflatable date. Hope she came with a Patch Kit!
          BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

          Current score: 6
          • Joe Nasty

            You really don’t get it.

            Current score: 3
  • upset fan

    He had friends in High School. The ones that did the partying with him. And his choice of friends now are just amazing cuz they seem to do the same things still. If is not one beating their woman its the other ones he runs with. I am NOT shocked. Confused on if it happened the 1-1-13 why she didn’t call before and waited until it happened again. When they say Sorry it doesn’t stop. You need to leave.

    Current score: 2
  • Live and Learn

    I went to high school with Jeremy and I was one of his good friends, and I loved him to death back then. Honestly, though, this is not surprising. I hope he goes away for a long time… People defending abusers are the reason that women don’t come forward when they are getting beaten. Way to be enablers! No matter what this girl did, she did not deserve to be beaten. No person deserves to get beaten. Plain and simple. There are other ways to deal with your relationship problems!

    Current score: 4
  • Youllneverknow

    I have tried and tried to stay away from this sick and twisted comment section but everyone was in such an uproar about it curiosity killed the cat I suppose. Not one single person that has made a comment is me-(until now) not one single person on here was in the relationship with Jeremy that I was. Say whatever you want. I know what happened. The police witnessed violence and the abuse bcuz I intact told the police I didn’t want him to go to jail I just wanted to leave. They told me I didn’t have a choice they saw what happened and so he was going. Not one of you will ever understand te things I’ve seen and gone through. My things are indeed packed and I am moving as far away from this as I can get. And I dnt recall who thought it was appropriate or mature to bring my children into this-but in fact I am a damn good mother. I am a single mother because I carry the weight for my ex-husband who chose not to be a father to my children just like his exs are doing for their children. My children are VERY WELL taken care of and if you think for a half of a second this is where I WANTED my little family and I to be you’re dead wrong. It’s always easy to say “she should have left” “why didn’t she just leave” but like I said no one knows what I’ve seen and been put through. If it were as easy as just picking my kids up and leaving…doesn’t common sense tell ANYONE that’s what I would have done?? I love my children very much and all I can do is thank God that this is over and we are on to bigger and better things. As for me being a “home wrecker” who sleeps with other people-hmm I’ve never cheated on anyone a day in my life I whole heartly believe in the sanctity of a relationship-always have and always will. So please just leave well enough alone and let the people that have been hurt by this, let them hurt and heal. Let it be.

    Current score: 6
  • wht…a…lsr…

    Sounds like scum to me. How can some of you people stick up for this man? Their was evidence he man handled his girl. He has been charged with the same offense in the past, of course he did it. I don’t care what the woman is like any man who is going to put their hands on a woman is a total loser and is absolutely worthless.

    Current score: 11
  • Unknown

    Your remarks youllneverknow are actually sad because of the amount of lies told by this. Yes u may have been abused by him which is wrong but you have put yiur kids thru this many times with ur ex so how is that a good mom? You didnt have ur kids for the longest time until recently! You have a drug problem and this I have seen proof of so there another point ur kids dnt really matter! And tiur part about santicy of a relationship isnt tru because you have slept with men eho were in relationships and have tried to interfere with those relationships. The sad thing about tgis is the children, they have no stable life with you at all and they deserve it. You have alot to fix within yourself.

    Current score: 9
    • lol

      first off ur just as pathetic as jeremey saying shes not a good mom. have u known kayla? ive known her FOR YEARS she may not be perfect.. and yes she may have been in an abusive relationship before but does that justify wtf was done? NO it doesnt .. she cant control another persons actions. and if u want to believe a person can change ur gonna be by that persons side. People are capable of changing.. not everyone so of course shes gonna try and work it out when love is involved. im just glad she realized it wasnt love on his part. u are sitting here accusing her of beina drug addict.. what proof? its funny cuz the ENTIRE time i was staying with them the only thing i witnessed kayla do is smoke cigarettes.. WHICH ARE LEGAL. jeremy has fed so mmany ppl BS about this woman and its messed up. funny tho that he was always awake never sleeping barely.. signs of cocaine or meth.. kayla may not be perfect but who is? stop talkin all this sh*t about her. but we aint gon trip on that becuz ppl who really know kayla knows shes a great mom and a good woman. now jeremy.. hes the piece of sh*t

      Current score: 3
  • Youllneverknow

    Again “unknown” you apparently have no idea about what’s goin on or what has happened. My children have always been by my side. 100% of the time. My ex husband has nothing to do with this. And I’d love to know who or what relationship I’ve interfered with. Wtfe I actually dnt give a sh*t what anyone has to say. I know what happened and so does he. So the people that actually matter in this situation know the truth. Like I said earlier let it be. Let people hurt, heal and grow from this and just stay out of business that’s not yours. Just bcuz you read something or heard something doesn’t mean for one second that any of it is true.

    Current score: 3
  • http://nppost.com Walleye

    I don’t know any of the people involved in this mess. But I do know one thing for certain…Real Men Don’t Hit Women!

    Current score: 10
  • Really?????

    This guy sounds like Johnnie B Goode. Tattoo guy…..he was just as worthless

    Current score: 1
    • Enlightened

      First of all Johnnie does not, will not and has not hit a woman. To compare him to a low life scumbag like this guy is pathetic…Seriously if you have some vendetta against him, (which you obviously do), this hardly seems the correct scenario to air YOUR issues with someone in…Besides he no longer dwells with the bottom feeders in No.Place. He now OWNS his own shop and has three other artists in his employ. Get a clue….

      Current score: 4
      • really????

        and his vehicles were repo’d; and he had to leave north platte because the state department of health was after him. he doesn’t own his own shop he rents a space and he will lose that as well soon….who knows he will most likely be in prison again for the next 20 years of his life. and yes he has hit a woman…..

        Current score: 0
        • Enlightened

          No they were not repo’d, and if the state of nebraska was after him, dumbass, he would not have recieved his FACILITY liscense you mis-informed, drama queen. Get a life, and brush the sand out of your vagina.And that depends on your definition of a woman….why don’t you just lick your wounds and MOVE ON…We have…

          Current score: 2
          • really????

            You assume I’m even a female…which is funny! I’m not sure you even know who you are talking too…all is well though he’s gone and that’s the best thing to ever happen to North Platte and the Tattoo industry here

            Current score: 1
  • Enlightened

    Also he has NO children, none, zip, zero….He doesn’t even drink anymore, maybe you have him confused with his scumbag brother Ronnie??? Because that would fit to a T….

    Current score: 0
    • really????

      your right he doesn’t have children because his ex wife had an abortion because she didn’t think he would be a good enough father!

      Current score: 1
  • Dale Dribble

    I hope someone steals his food tray and smacks him around while he’s in jail. Show him what its like.

    Current score: 6
  • another one

    You have the nerve to play the innocent victim!!?? That just shows how messed up you really are! You have an abandonment charge on you for leaving your kids to go be with that loser. You were with Jeremy THE ENTIRE TIME HE HAD A PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND!! Who you later got a hold of so you knew what was going on but still lurked around!! So you wanna play little miss innocent saying you don’t interfere with other people’s relationships!!?? Even after she had the baby you kept coming around!! If you knew he had a pregnant girlfriend and already 3 other kids, why didn’t you back the hell off!!?? Cause you thought you were in love!? Cause you believed all the lies and bullcrap that came out of his mouth?! And now you want to act like “poor little me” IT’S ALL PHONY!! You are just as bad as he is and as no one deserves to be beat up you certainly put yourself in this situation because you were warned many times about him and his violence. AND for anyone sticking up for him, you are just as stupid. Everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie and he’s gotten away with too much for too long. He absolutely deserves everything he’s got coming to him and definitely NOT a good role model for ANY of his kids. THE END.

    Current score: 14
    • wow!

      Very well said!!!

      Current score: 4
  • AMEN!!

    Now if that isn’t the truth!!!!!

    Current score: 6
  • Really

    Yeah…what they said!! Take that kayla, put that in ur pipe & smoke it!! Glad ur moving far away!! Take the rest of the crazies in this town w u! Including him! But can u please find a good home for the innocent kiddos?? They deserve the best life possible, pretty sure that’s not around U!

    Current score: 8